15 QUESTIONS NEVER TO ASK ON YOUR FIRST DATE

               while we all know the first date is all about getting to know the person sitting across the table, smiling, tolerating, sharing and planning a supposed future based on the conversations of your crush/date. The trail of your conversation on the first date might make or annihilate any chances of a second date and the later is cool when it is with someone we were never attracted to in the first place, but a real heart breaker when it is with our very very long time crush.
              Stay with me on this page while I give you a few questions you should never ask to avoid your date taking to their heels and never looking back.


#1  HOW DID YOUR PREVIOUS RELATIONSHIP END?

 Hell no! that's a recipe for lies, or exaggerations. c'mon she's/his with you not the ex. reminiscing is so not meant to be a topic for the first date.

# 2  WHAT IS YOUR SALARY/LEVEL(STUDENTS)?

Ok pump the brakes there darling, the salary does two things: makes him/her arrogant and highly selective or humble and extremely choosy. So If you come straight up as the materialistic type, trust me dear no none loves that kind

#3 HOW MUCH CAN YOU AFFORD TO SPEND ON A DATE?

In as much as ladies love to act all fugal, homely and considerate asking that question is demasculinizing and be littling I mean let him worry about the bills, he asked you out in the first place therefore he is trying as much as possible to impress you, do not go taking the wheels acting like a control freak , that is totally a turn off

#4  ARE YOU A VIRGIN?

Hell yeah! old things are past away all things are new in Christ. I mean who still does that on the fist date, why no go a step further and ask when, who and how did it happen

#5  HOW'S YOUR SEX LIFE?

Dude! now what kind of answer do I give that would not be held against me in few minutes time eh! I mean is this a date or the bedroom Gosh get some manners .

#6  ARE YOU GAY?

point blank recipe for disaster.... I rest my case

#7 DO YOU LOVE SEX?

Yeah as unbelievable as it sounds people ask that, change a first date conversation to a sex conversation back to back.

#8 WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT ME?

Darling if they thought anything about you that was worth it trust m they would have told you. so asking how they see you or what they think about you leads to lies and exaggerations aside from the stress that comes from putting them on the spot

#9  WHEN DO YOU INTEND TO GET MARRIED?

oh honey don't sweat it. t is just the first date marriage should not be considered just yet.

#10  WHERE DO YOU SEE YOUSELF AND THIS RELATIONSHIP IN 5YEARS?

Hold on just a sec! is this a date or a marriage interview.... just asking

#11  WHY DID YOU GET THOSE TATTOOS?
Mind your own body and yes your business.


#12  DO YOU HAVE N STD?

Even if I did I would not tell you on the first date... sorry but I do not want you fleeing with a speed faster than lightening,

#13  I CHEKED YOUR WEBPAGE AND WAS WONDERING......?

Stalker alert! please resist all urge to go through all your dates pictures posts and what have you to avoid having unnecessary question at heart.

#14  CAN WE TAKE A COUPLE SELFIE?

  oh hell No! first dates are not social media worthy.

#15  CAN YOU GIVE MY NUMBER TO YOUR CUTE ROOMATE, FRIEND OR SIBLING?
Ouch! that even hurt my feelings